She’s a psycho.

It doesn’t take much for men to think girls are psychos. 

Really it doesn’t. 

A little over zealous texting and acting a little too keen and needy is all they need to label girls a psycho. 

Not us Rules Girls of course.  We’re far too in control to be ever labelled psychos.

Let me explain what I mean via a quick story.

A family friend was recently introduced to a suitor.  The introductions were made via their extended families.  These introductions are fairly common in my culture.  They usually involve your family sitting you down and showing you a photo. This is then followed by a brief suitor synopsis which includes their name, height, marital status, where they live, work, their level of education, number of siblings etc.   

Nowadays and depending on how ‘liberal’ your family are, you’re given a phone number and told to get on with it.  This is what happened in this scenario.  My male family friend was shown a photo and given a number.  He said she was really pretty so he decided to call her.

They talked on the phone twice.  Both occasions the calls lasted two hours.  On hearing this I already knew how this story was going to end.  They met a couple of weeks ago. He didn’t bother driving down to her neighbourhood.  Instead they arranged to meet at a convenient shopping mall.  The date ended with her leaning over to kiss him.  After the date she continued to text and call him. 

Apparently she’d text him at work with tit bits of her day.  In one text she wrote she was ‘going to the shops.’ She also kept sending him photos of herself and her family.

He said she ‘started to do his head in.’   And that’s all it took for him to brand her a psycho

I personally don’t think she’s a psycho; she’s just keen and made the mistake of treating him like a girlfriend.  Men are not are girlfriends especially not prospective suitors. 

He’s stopped returning her texts because he felt, if she’s this needy now what’s she going to be like once they’re married. 

This last point is really key.

Men must do the work when it comes to dating i.e. make the first contact, call and arrange the date but they mustn’t feel that being with us is hard work.  I hope you can see the difference because there’s a big difference.  If not (forgive my blatant self promotion) why don’t you book a private consultation by visiting wingsbowsandarrows.com