It all happened so fast.

This is never great to hear. 

'We’ve only just met and it’s all going so fast’ she’ll gush giddy with excitement.

I don’t wish to spoil the party but I always get anxious whenever I hear this.  Usually the girl is delighted. She’s normally over the moon with the way things are going. 

Take heed.

If within the first couple of months you’re spending heaps of time together,  have met each other’s families,  have stayed several nights at each other’s place.  And have gone away on a couple of trips then slow down.

Spending too much time together too soon  usually spells disaster later in the relationship.  That’s because men normally fall in love quicker than women.  When they first meet us, they want to see us all the time.  It’s normal.  It’s over to us to slow things down. 

Don’t be taken in by the whirlwind courtship. 

You’ll stack the odds in your favour if you make him wait, let him miss you, think about and imagine you.

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