Halfway house.

Dear readers as I’m sure you know we don’t get ourselves into any ‘halfway house’ scenarios.

If you were happily dating only to discover he won’t commit, then he’s a ‘Next.’  None of this ‘let’s stay friends business.’  

If he wants to stay friends tell him you have enough friends’ thank you.  If he wants to see you, he can either date you properly or commit to a relationship.

If you’re in any ‘on and off’ type scenario, but he calls when he needs something tell him ‘you’d love to help but you’re busy.’  And no you can’t water his plants or look after his dog while he’s on holiday. And no you absolutely cannot accompany him to his friend’s party because he doesn't want to go alone.  He can employ a concierge service and he can go to the party alone.

Either they want to date and commit to us or they don’t. 

If they’re not interested in us then we’re certainly not interested in them.