I’m referring to My Guy or ex guy. For anyone following the blog you’ll know my ex guy has been on ‘no contact.’ He’s recently been in touch and we’ve had a couple of conversations.
I must confess the great thing about the ‘no contact’ rule is that while they’re thinking, you also get to think. I was happy when we restarted talking but subsequent conversations have only confirmed that he’s still not ready.
One reason for him not being ready was his family. His family didn’t like my stats. I’m older than him and divorced and unfortunately being divorced still holds a stigma in my culture. He’s talked to his entire family about me and they all gave me a big fat resounding no. Ok I lie; they gave me a huge, massive no.
Despite their thoughts towards me, his family do sound very nice and I understand their point of view. The other great thing about our recent conversations is that they’ve helped raise a couple of red flags, namely how influential his family are and will probably continue to be.
My ex guy has only ever been affectionate, generous and kind. We’ve had a great Rules-y relationship and there’s absolutely no animosity between us. I know there are compromises in every relationship, but the compromises for me would be huge.
Rules Girls don’t waste time, we don't settle and we choose carefully.
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