Back on the dating wagon.

I’m back on the dating horse and have been for about a month.   

Like a good Rules Girl/Coach I reactivated my dating profile a couple of days after my ex guy went on the ‘on contact’ plan.  To date I’ve had three dates with one guy who is very keen.  He also comes with baggage in the form of an ex wife and children.   And I’ve also had a date zero with another guy.

I’m already on two dating sites but plan to put myself on another few.  I’ll also be signing up to singles events as well as getting myself out there.

Last night I logged on to check my messages.  I’ve received all these messages from one dating site but unfortunately every single one is a ‘Next.’

They either wrote one word emails or didn’t refer to anything within my written profile.  Only two mentioned something within my profile but both of these suitors were too short.   I know height isn’t a deal breaker for many people but it is for me.  I’m not looking for anyone who is 6ft tall but I’d like them to be taller than me.

I really thought my dating days were over and I was looking forward to moving things on with my ex guy.  I’d done all the hard work or rather he’d done all the hard work and we were going great guns. 

Alas dear readers and fellow singletons here I am back on the dating scene.  Over the weekend I’ll be re-writing out my intentions together with having a serious think about what I’m looking for.  After that I plan to blitz, blitz and blitz. 

I must confess the thought of having to re-start my dating journey does make me sad.  I'd worked so hard. Anyway for now I plan on gritting my teeth, getting out there and seeing what comes my way.