Sabtu, 21 Juli 2012

A male perspective - please don't call us or tell us what to do.


I’m itching to share this story with you dear readers.  Last night I went out with a male friend.  He knows all about The Rules.  Well what do you expect, he is my friend after all and I am partial to talking about The Rules every so often.
Anyway he’s dating this girl.  So far they’ve had two dates.
‘I can’t figure it out’ he said
‘How do you mean?’ I asked
‘She’s really pretty, has a great figure, a great job, any man would be lucky to have her but I’m not enthused about her.’
‘Oh how come’ 
‘Well we’ve only had two dates and she already seems really into me.  To be honest I’m a little unnerved.’
‘What you think she may be a stalker.’
‘I think she may have stalker tendencies.’
Ok dear readers, this is what happened.
She called him after their first date to tell him how much she enjoyed meeting him.  She also asked his availability for a second date.  She said she was going away for a week with work and could they meet before she left.
He agreed and they met for dinner.  At the end of their second date she told him how she didn’t want the date to end and how she was going to really miss him.  
It gets worse dear readers.  It really does.
He said he could tell she really enjoyed being wined and dined.   She’d already mentioned her preference for fancy restaurants.  He said he felt real pressure to find a suitable venue.  In the end he chose an Italian restaurant but he could see she didn’t like it. 
When asked if she liked the food, she replied with a limp
‘It’s ok.’  
To the waiters wine recommendation she responded with:
‘That's not any good. It’s 2010 and 2010 wasn’t a great wine year.’
Die hard and newbie Rules Girls please make sure:
  • You never call a man to thank him for the date
  • You let the man lead and you gracefully receive
  • You play hard to get
  • At no point do you gush over how great he is
  • You never tell a man what to do.
P.s my friend also said how he wished more girls would do The Rules.

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